Do you feel deprived, on eggshells, or frustrated in your relationship?
Marriage and Couples counseling can help you increase communication, reduce conflict, foster mutual respect, and enhance intimacy and companionship.
Couples counseling is a place for you to have constructive dialogues about topics that may be difficult for you to discuss on your own. My role as your marriage and couples counselor is to make it safe for you and your partner to constructively address what isn't working and to talk about what you'd like to be better. Couples counseling helps you establish a track record of overcoming challenges so that you can do this on your own, without a therapist's help. Once you and your partner feel that you have the ability to talk constructively no matter what issue comes up, you can handle pretty much anything in your relationship.
Marriage and couples therapy can help if you are experiencing one or more of the following challenges:
- Difficulty discussing or resolving differences
- Communication that has become stilted or counterproductive
- Sensing that your relationship is drifting or that you and your partner are living separate lives
- Lack of intimacy, affection, or quality time
- Feeling that your relationship is not living up to its promise
- Unresovled disagreements about finances, parenting, sex, friendships, or joint activities
- Crises such as infidelity, health issues, or one partner questioning the relationship
- A cycle of blame or disrespect
- Worries that one or both of you has given up on the relationship
- Excessive conflict
- Feeling that your partner withdraws when you seek closeness
- Feeling that one or both of you is holding on to past upsets and can’t let go
- Controlling, addictive, or destructive behavior in your relationship
My job is to help you achieve these by serving as a resource, coach, ally, cheerleader, advisor, and sometimes even a referee. I tailor marriage and couples counseling to your individual needs drawing from a combination of empirically validated couples therapy approaches including Emotionally Focused Therapy, adult attachment therapy, Gottman’s approach, Imago therapy, Acceptance and Commitment therapy, and Dialectical Behavior Therapy. I work with all manner of relationship issues including recovery from affairs, blended families, parenting challenges, lack of intimacy, controlling behavior, post-traumatic stress disorder, and pre-martial counseling.
Among the possible benefits of marriage and couples counseling:
- A deeper and more intimate connection
- A greater sense of partnership, affection, and companionship
- The feeling of being in a healthy partnership rather than feeling alone
- Ability to state your needs and feelings clearly and constructively so you can avoid or resolve conflicts
- Greater willingness to compromise and solve problems
- Less blame and more companionship
- Tools and techniques to foster constructive communication and closeness
My office is in Greenbrae near Marin General Hospital, just off Hwy 101 and Sir Francis Drake Blvd. I offer individual therapy to adults as well as couples therapy and marriage counseling. In addition to seeing clients, I provide education through workshops and published works on relationships, marriage, family relations, parenting, self-esteem, achieving goals, and setting healthier boundaries. I hold both doctoral and masters degrees in clinical psychology and have been licensed in Marin county as a marriage and family therapist for more than 20 years. I offer services to a diverse population including married and unmarried couples as well as straight and gay couples and individuals of all ethnicities. Communities served include San Rafael, Kentfield, Larkspur, Ross, Corte Madera, Mill Valley, Tiburon, Sausalito, San Anselmo, Novato, Fairfax, Marin City, Terra Linda, Greenbrae, Bel Marin Keys, Petaluma, Stinson Beach, Muir Beach, Ignacio, Hamilton, Nicasio, Lagunitas, Forest Knolls, Woodacre, Bolinas, and throughout Marin County.
Dan Neuharth PhD MFT Marin County Psychotherapist and Marriage & Couples Counselor
California Lic. LMFT29178